My questioning enbian experience is wondering if it’s worth exploring for myself when there are so few enbies out there. I mean, I could try to put myself out there and find more enbies, but I’d actually have to come out as nonbinary publicly first. I don’t know what that would look like.
It’s also me wondering if I’m really preferentially attracted to nonbinary people or if a relationship with a nonbinary person is just my only hope for not getting forcibly binarized by my partner and by society when I’m with my partner.
(I’m also toric/attracted to men, but I have difficulty imagining a relationship with one where I wouldn’t either be sorted into being mlm/a gay man or wlm/a straight woman. Either situation feels wrong to me.)
this is enbian experience!
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