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tbh,, I saw you rbed that squipjer post and thought “ah finally, a non toxic bmc blog” so thanks for existing
HELL YEAH
i live to be the best bmc blog around!
(actually there’s a lot of good blogs, and i’d prolly be more active and friendly and soft, but this fandom is so... cruel sometimes, so i get anxious and snappy when i don’t mean to be;; so i could do better, but i appreciate this ask a lot <3 )
where do you rp?
@threeclans
@mountainsiderp
I found out that I’m really comfortable/happy with they/them pronouns as well as my agab pronouns. am I still cis, or is it possible that I learned a thing about myself today?
The only thing I can say is that surely you learned more about yourself.
Pronouns aren't essentially linked to gender identities, they don't determine your identity.
It's possible to be cisgender and use they/themself pronoun, in the same way there are AFAB he/him women and AMAB she/her men that aren't transgender just because of pronouns.
Also multipronoun individuals don't have to be multigender.
Testing pronouns is a way of gender experience for many people, i.e. getting social gender euphoria when people using a specific pronoun, staying gender dysphoric when someone mispronoun you.
In the end of the day, it's only you that can determine yourself.
apart from being stereotypical, how can someone ‘ sound ‘ gay?
the assumption is that he sounds stereotypical, apparently?
and he... doesn’t. he literally doesn’t.
some very vocal people are Very Mad that george salamander made michael ‘a harmful gay stereotype’... except he’s not, and he didn’t.
most of the people making these claims (and convincing others, unfortunately) are antis, exclusionists, and generally people who seem less-then-bothered by cross-fandom bullying so that’s... fun.
maybe i missed something, but i don’t think i did.
top 3 or 5 bmc ships, go!
oh jesus that’s a hard one, uhhhh… hm…
… okay. so.
in order of good to great:
5, richmichael and jakejer and jakemichael
4, richmichaeljeremy. this prolly woulda been higher a few months ago but i’ve been… really burnt on michael (outside my favorite michael rper; she knows who she is <3) lately*
3, brookechloe (dark/angsty) and brookejenna and softie book squip/two rivers squip
2, a very specific version of rich’s squip/jeremy’s squip, and richjer
1, squipemy (or squipjer, or jersquip, or technical difficulties, or w/e) and rich/his squip (preferably that very specific kind i mentioned before; also, does anyone have a name for this ship?)
* = if you notice, i didn’t include singular boyfs or richjake. that’s not because i don’t ship them.
while i’m more casual about richjake, i just… so many boyf, and by extension michael, fans have been people who have actively wished for my (and others) death, among other issues like ‘harassing the fuck out of george salamander and noticeably changing the way he interacts with fans’. that’s NOT even CLOSE to the majority of boyf shippers, mind you, but basically all the fandoms antis are staunch boyfs, and so of course they tend to be aggressive as fuck about how you should write/consume boyfs, and i just… can’t… deal with that. it’s exhausting.
which is made worse by the fact that under the flame wars and aggression and fandom bullshit, platonic and/or romantic boyfs is arguably one of the most fascinating main character/best friend dynamics i’ve ever seen. sucks i can’t really enjoy it as much as i’d like to right now; this feeling will pass eventually, but until then, i just gotta Sit Here and feel wary around fans i meet until i know for sure they won’t attack me over shipping.
also: my ao3 is Sedusa and i post bmc fics, including an ongoing squipemy multichapter fic!
what do your ids/labels mean? sorry I’m just curious
i'm so sorry i'm answering this so late. i hadn't noticed this was in my inbox. i feel stupid.
i use quite a few labels like nonbinary, trans, transfeminine, and genderfae.
but to my perspective and experience my gender identity overall just means that i have a connection to womanhood, a strange connection, but a connection regardless.
i'm sorry if this didn't answer your question. please let me know if you need farther explanation.
