Allowing Exclusivity On Your Path
One thing I’ve gone back and forth with as a sensitive being is: Allowance. The world says it’s rude to leave out difficult emotions and negativity, but something else within also says not to entertain the nonsense. What does all this mean? How do I discern in every moment what to allow emotionally, and what to exclude?
My findings as of recently, is understanding where resistance, density and negativity are coming from. If I am experiencing pain and difficulty internally, it is MOST Loving to allow those internal experiences and actively send Love to myself as these things are “acting out.” An interesting tidbit that I’ve noticed is that the more I’ve been committing to Loving myself, my awareness goes to Love which means that all of my energy is focused away from energy that isn’t serving me. And that’s when all the “entities” and “demons” arise because they recognize that I’ve stopped feeding them. I continue to feed myself Love as these emotions, physical pains, and circumstantial breakaways come about. It’s interesting how people can become upset when you demonstrate that you’re in a committed relationship with actively Loving Yourself.
If someone is coming to me externally with their Internal disturbances, this is where I draw a boundary. There is a real difference between SUPPORT and Emotional Offloading/Transference. When an individual is not dealing with their internal emotional experiences and chooses to project and expel them externally whether in general or towards others, it is MOST Loving to ME to refuse these advances towards my energetic field.
TLDR:. For Highly Sensitive People, practice loving kindness towards your own internal emotional experiences. Do NOT entertain the emotional projections and transference of others who are not placing their Awareness on their own internal emotional experiences.
It’s easy to discern when people aren’t doing their emotional work. They get offended when you express and communicate a Loving boundary for yourself. Remember this: “People who matter, don’t mind. And people who MIND, don’t matter.”
CP
