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[queerzaza]

[Private] i was the anon who asked about the 21 year old and i think you're right. Thanks for the advice <3

you sent this anon, so i can’t do private, but i’m glad you do. in the long-run it will be so much better for you! all the love and hugs!

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Ugh, my neighbors are having LOUD sex right now. And, it's been forever since I've been in a relationship, so I'm currently blasting music and pretending I'm not sex starved. It's not really working, haha :) (I just needed to tell *someone*)

yeah we kinda have an unspoken competition with our upstairs neighbors. they are probs louder, but they are done in like 2min- where’s the fun in that! i hope you get what you need! *hugs*

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[queerzaza]

So, I'm dating this guy and I like I'm totally, but in a more friendship kinda way... Mostly because I have a head over heels crush on this girl, Zahra at my school... Oops. What do I do?

drop the guy and date the girl! if you’re not into him, then why waste each others time? i mean you can totally be friends with him, but don’t lead the guy on. that won’t be advantageous for either of you! good luck!

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hey zaza i just went from last chair (worst player) to second chair (second best) in my flute section in band in one day and im sosososososo nervous and i dont deserve it and one of my friends who also plays the flute seems upset cause i got her booted down to fourth chair and i dont know what to do?? i asked my director to move me down and he flipped out on me and this is just my first year in flute and im terribly inexperienced and i dont deserve it and now people expect me to be and help pls

he has faith in you, and you should too. seats change, that is the nature of it, and your director put you where he thinks you belong. so rise to the challenge! practice your heart out, and prove to yourself that you belong in that chair! don’t let others’ jealousy get in the way.

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Oh Zaza, I get migraines too, at least 2 month. I know your pain as I was in bed all day on Wednesday feeling sorry for myself. I'd like to tell that I made a new Uni friend today in my maths tute by staying back and explaining something a few different ways until she got the concept. I'm sooooo bad at making friends that I'm over the moon atm.

aren’t they the worst!?! ugh- i hate them. but hey- congrats on the new friend!!!

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Zaza, you are such a wonderful person with an amazing personality. You try and help so many people and you give lots of good advice and help to people who really need it. I hope one day I can be as great as you! (This probably sounds silly lol)

oh wow- thank you Elise!!!! i so greatly appreciate your kind words. just know that i’m still working on me, it’s a journey, and i try everyday to be the best person i can be!

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Zazaaa :( I'm sorry you're having migraines. I hope you feel better soon :(

thank you Leesh! i get them like once or twice a month, so i’ve got meds, but they simply dull the pain. i’m feeling better tho!

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I'm trans and for my band concert tonight I asked the band director if I could follow the guys dress code because it made me more comfortable. He told me I had to follow the girls dress code, and when he went over the dress code he overemphasized ladies and stared at me. He made me feel so gross and I don't even know how to react to people like him. :/

ugh that man disgusts me! i wish you lived here in Cali where ppl aren’t allowed to do that. i’m so sorry you have to deal with him, and ppl like that. i hope in the near future you’re able to always dress in a way that makes you feel good and comfortable. *all the warm hugs to you* hang in there luv! 

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