In theory I dont have a problem with the TMA/TME dichotomy, I think its usually useful to have language that succintly describes specific struggles and i definitely see the value in the terms.
My problem. Is the sheer amount of people who seem to think "TMA" means "Real Woman with Real Problems who can do no wrong and deserve to be protected at all costs" and "TME" means "shitty Less-Than-Women who cant know what it means to struggle, who will automatically be given infinite societal protections for any wrong they do, and who will always abuse TMAs whenever they get the chance".
Really, genuinely if I see one more person say cis lesbians cant use the word butch im gonna lose my mind. Im done seeing people claim tranny is a transfem exclusive slur when it was leveraged against every girl I knew who cut their hair short or wore men's clothing. And I am EXHAUSTED by this weird insistence that someone who grew up being treated like a woman cant know what misogyny looks like just because they dont identify as one anymore.