Hello can I ask what made you want to be a dom ? What do you get from it and has your feelings on what it means to be a dom changed over time ?
Why, yes, Anon. Of course.
To be honest, it was Tumblr. Along with a very natural feeling that put me into a protective mental state. From seeing an image here & there, to scrolling profiles that had a plethora of them.
Of course, just as Tumblr does, it was also quickly turned into a sexual thing after a few years of innocent emotions of wanting to strictly protect, love, nourish, & watch grow, into wanting to see some corruption & having control over the outcomes of how I'd thought love was supposed to be reciprocated or returned.
What I get from it now is exactly what I'd wanted initially to have from the lifestyle. A person, & even other persons that look up to me as the protector & even lover. A person whose responsibilities are not simply just for myself but for the betterment of all others, even outside of my own dynamic.
As is with everything in our life, yes. There has to be some evolution on the mind & mentality of all things on our journey. It's no longer about simply being in control or "Dom" this & "sub" that. It has become about giving & being able to show others the contributions & sacrifices made are strictly from sacrifice.
Not from just my own individualistic point of view, but to show off what other Doms are also capable of.