I really have to work emphasize my appreciation for a certain quality I love in Men.... In the circumstances when someone expresses something they see as a flaw or a sign there might be room for some improvement, and they take heed and are comfortable enough to consider vs. being prideful and defensive... I can't imagine being a man and the pressures life gives them. But lately I'm seeing so many men respond one way or another. Humbleness and being open-minded and transparent really shows growth and a certain type of character. We're all human and although you may need to feel constantly in control and together that's unrealistic and kind of unhealthy. A man open to others insight, and sometimes criticism is way more attractive than arrogance or justification.
Womxn see right through false confidence. There are some who unmindfully condone and entertain their mate believing that's their duty. By doing this, a domino effect of fallacies becomes a part of your relationship. It hinders growth enabling a foundation built on contentment.
*** approach and deliver are delicate when dealing with some people. It's important to take things like timing and surroundings into consideration.
******* also pick your battles when addressing flaws, you don't want to break anyone down. Don't create a complex in them. Don't use the open communication as a reason to list everything you notice. Weigh out what's worth the effort and possible pain that could erupt.