The best lesson I have learned this year is never to force anything to happen. Let things happen naturally. I learned to stop trying to make things happen. I let things happen. Through force, you can never really find what you are looking for. Without force, what you are looking for will naturally find you. I am not saying you should stop attempting, struggling, pursuing. I mean stop forcing things. Don’t force anything. Ever. Let all things unfold. Because that is the only way you can unfold the things meant for you. If Someone doesn’t love you back, don’t try to persuade, threaten, intimidate, blackmail them. If you want a promotion or a raise at work, don’t intimidate your peers. If Someone doesn’t respect you, don’t try forcing them to respect you. If something is not really given naturally, you can never really have it, can you? You do not really have love, when you force someone to have feelings for you. You really just have resentment. You do not really have success, when you force it. You really just have anxiety. You do not really have respect, when you force it. I have learned to relax. If anything is meant to be, it will come to me naturally. And it will be meant for me. If it doesn’t happen, it was never meant to be and it will never be mine if I force it. Relax and let things happens to you naturally, you will enjoy it. Trust me. #mtotowanesi #letthingshappensmoothlyandnaturally #letthingshappen #dontforcethings #dontforcelove #dontforcerelationships #dontforcefriendships #dontforcepeople #ifitmeanttobeitwillbe #yourwillbeyours (at Mnazi Mmoja Moshi) https://www.instagram.com/p/CYGCGu0I16h/?utm_medium=tumblr
