#donutdude

[ladyspankington]

Looks like Chris got caught lying to more women and changed his username. I'm still going to keep tagging him.

NO WOMAN DESERVES TO BE LIED TO BY THIS MONSTER!!

He will steal from you, he will lie to you. He does not care about how his actions affect other people. He is a user and abuser. Please, ladies, avoid him and for the love of god, don't let him anywhere near your children!

[shairmyworld]

DOUBLE VEGAN FUN WITH DONUTS Yes back at The Vegan Food Festival and today I met this wonderful woman in person @samboes_kitchen that I already know from social and we had a good time with talking about vegan life. It was a pleasure meeting you I really loved the vibe you brought in the short time we spent. Till next time! Hope you enjoyed your donut from @donutdudeamsterdam (@brekkish and I did for sure😋) and hope to see you again soon. So so lobi 💚 📷 @brekkish - - - #vegangirl #donuts #vegandonuts #veganvibes #donutdude #veganist #vegansnack #blackvegansofig #veganfoodfestival #vegansofig #coloredgirls #vegan #veganistisch #veganeten #blackeuropean #crueltyfree #plantbased #plantbasedfood #veganfood #veganbites #sosolobi #afrovegan #nomeat #plantpower #instablogger #veganlifestyle #veganlife #plantaardig #blackvegan (bij Westerpark)

[ladyspankington]

I haven’t been on Tumblr much lately. Too may bad memories. But I wanted to refresh the tags on my ex, his new username is daddoeswhat as a warning to other women. 

This isn’t me wanting to ruin his life. This is me trying to put women first. He started up a new blog and is back to the same lies he told before. He does this to get attention and because he’s looking for a sugar momma. If it was him being truthful, or seeking out honesty, I wouldn’t bother. But he’s back to the same lies and I feel a responsibility to put something out there to protect my sisters out there. 

No woman should have to go through what I did. He is pathological. Seeing that he’s up to his old lies, he clearly hasn’t gotten help. Avoid him if you can. I have literally received over a dozen -ONE FUCKING DOZEN- women that messaged me after we broke up tell me about all of the cheating and lies. 

If you don’t believe me about anything, that’s totally ok. This is just a warning. But he isn’t an engineer. He doesn’t own property. He is an admitted abuser. He’s been in jail. Look him up in public records. 

Here are the links where I was discovering all of this stuff, if you’d like some light reading. 

http://ladyspankington.tumblr.com/post/153271693859/just-so-it-shows-up-for-future-internet-searches

http://ladyspankington.tumblr.com/post/151048093054/holy-shit-im-so-sorry-he-got-me-i-knew-it-was

http://ladyspankington.tumblr.com/post/143540516614/if-anyone-has-an-questions-about-donutdude-or

[ladyspankington]

Holy shit I'm so sorry. He got me. I knew it was too good to be true. I can't believe it. You deserve so much better than him. I'm so sorry for whatever part I played.

Ugh, I’m sorry. It’s so heartbreaking how many women he did this too. The more and more I found out about him, and peeled the layers back, the worse it got. Even after jail and the hospital, he was still never 100% honest with me about exactly what he did. I guess I’ll never really know how many people he cheated on me with or how anything really even happened. I know he’s a predator, so of course, I know all us ladies were victims of his lies and manipulation. The worst is that after jail and everything happened back in April, I tried to stand by him so he could get the help he needed, and he was still texting women behind my back. If you want to talk about it or have questions, please do not hesitate to talk to me. I have learned a bit from some of the other girls and they helped piece together some pieces of the puzzle. I’m sorry that he lied to you and led you on. I just hope he didn’t make any promises or hurt you.

[ladyspankington]

If anyone has an questions about donutdude or yourdarksidex, shoot me an IM. I’ve had about a half a dozen women that he catfished reach out. I can give you details.

For starters. He hasn’t been single in about 10 years. He has 2 children. He’s not an engineer. His last name isn’t Reynolds. The home he takes pics of is mine. Every trip, every cool adventure he’s been on in the past two years were trips I paid for and planned. All trips with me. The stained glass was mine. The camper was mine. He cheated on me and lied the entire relationship. He’s been catfishing women for years with his tumblr and instagram, portraying a life he didn’t actually live, pretending my (and other exes) accomplishments were his own. That dog? It’s his ex girlfriends and he hasn’t seen it in 2 years. He doesn’t restore classic cars. He’s obsessed with getting the attention and affection of young girls by any means necessary. He’s currently homeless. He’s been in jail. I still care about him. He has been my best friend and we spent every weekend together until we moved in together last August, when we spent basically every minute together. Including the moments where we went on adventures and he’d text girls the whole time, pretending he was there alone and telling me he was texting his kids. Here are some pics of us doing that fun stuff he’s pretending to do alone. Harper’s Ferry, camping (all camping trips were with me, he doesn’t own a tent), tubing, Pittsburgh, Maine, gem and rock show. His whole online persona, this sexy bondage single adventure guy is a complete fabrication. If you were taken in my him, I’m sorry. If you need more details, feel free to reach out. He lived a complete second life almost like a split personality. 

[ladyspankington]

I'm so sorry to read your words and that I can't be off anon to ask this, but did you know about his yourdarksidex blog? You do not need to reply to this, just wondering if you knew.

Nope. I know NOTHING about him. I feel like a fool. Thanks for telling me. I just can’t really handle that I was with someone that I just didn’t even know. Sometimes I feel like I want to know the details, and other times I just want to forget. I’m just so hurt by everything. And the worst part is that being with him kind of alienated me from my friends and know I don’t really have anyone to talk to. It’s the pits. 

[ladyspankington]

The past year and a half has been a huge lie. I keep peeling away layers and layers of lies. I can’t even begin to understand what makes someone so pathological, so compulsive in their need to lie to someone they claim to care about. Everything I thought I knew about him is a lie. Part of me wants to know the truth, but the other part knows it won’t help. He took me to all the places he took his last girlfriend. He lied about his home and his dog. He lied about money and his ex and his divorce. And now he’s in jail. How is this even real life?

[bhinto-blog]

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