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Looks like Chris got caught lying to more women and changed his username. I'm still going to keep tagging him.

NO WOMAN DESERVES TO BE LIED TO BY THIS MONSTER!!

He will steal from you, he will lie to you. He does not care about how his actions affect other people. He is a user and abuser. Please, ladies, avoid him and for the love of god, don't let him anywhere near your children!

#dadarad #dadventure #daddoeswhat #donutdude #yourdarksidex #chr7sss

Looks like I struck a nerve. daddoeswhat just blocked me. Looks like he isn’t interested in engaging in anything even remotely related to telling the truth or communication. He just does what he always does, hides under the covers and hope it goes away. Ladies, be warned. He’s lying to you.

#daddoeswhat #dadventure #dadarad

I haven’t been on Tumblr much lately. Too may bad memories. But I wanted to refresh the tags on my ex, his new username is daddoeswhat as a warning to other women.

This isn’t me wanting to ruin his life. This is me trying to put women first. He started up a new blog and is back to the same lies he told before. He does this to get attention and because he’s looking for a sugar momma. If it was him being truthful, or seeking out honesty, I wouldn’t bother. But he’s back to the same lies and I feel a responsibility to put something out there to protect my sisters out there.

No woman should have to go through what I did. He is pathological. Seeing that he’s up to his old lies, he clearly hasn’t gotten help. Avoid him if you can. I have literally received over a dozen -ONE FUCKING DOZEN- women that messaged me after we broke up tell me about all of the cheating and lies.

If you don’t believe me about anything, that’s totally ok. This is just a warning. But he isn’t an engineer. He doesn’t own property. He is an admitted abuser. He’s been in jail. Look him up in public records.

Here are the links where I was discovering all of this stuff, if you’d like some light reading.

http://ladyspankington.tumblr.com/post/153271693859/just-so-it-shows-up-for-future-internet-searches

http://ladyspankington.tumblr.com/post/151048093054/holy-shit-im-so-sorry-he-got-me-i-knew-it-was

http://ladyspankington.tumblr.com/post/143540516614/if-anyone-has-an-questions-about-donutdude-or

#daddoeswhat #donutdude #dadarad #dadventure

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