AYYYY happy birthday, hope its an easy good one blessed with gangsters 👍🏻 so AS A PRESENT for the meme bc im lame, 4, 5, 16, and 25 for charlier/meyer!
eeee thank youuu! and NO NOT LAME it is an A+ present t b q h I love answering this shit I’m so weak /o\
5. Who is most likely to carry the other?
Charlie is more likely to try,but Meyer’s more likely to actually succeed. he’s a wiry little fucker. on theupside it means they can both pin each other up against the wall depending onhow things shake out I mean what
16. Who wants to stay in bed just a little longer?
Charlie for sure. when Meyer’s up he’s pretty much just up andready to go, but Charlie says “five more minutesssssssss” for literally two hoursif he can get away with it
25. Who needs more assurance?
okay. well. they both have some pretty deep-seated insecuritiesabout different things. they both kind of need reassurance that they’revaluable to each other beyond what they can provide physically, but that manifestsin different ways: where people tend to value Charlie’s attractiveness and he needsreassurance that there are reasons to value him beyond “he’s pretty and good inbed,” the physicality that gets valued in Meyer is violent so he needsreassurance that it’s okay to be soft with the people he cares about, and thathe’s not weak for accepting softness from other people? beyond that, Meyer hasa lot of concerns about not being enough for Charlie, in terms of not matchinghis libido and, in his… more superficial moments, that the other people Charlieusually goes for are generally more conventionally attractive; meanwhileCharlie is basically constantly afraid he’s not smart enough for Meyer and thathe’s pushing stuff on him that he doesn’t want, ESPECIALLY early on. theybasically never talk about it explicitly/outside the bedroom, and I thinkCharlie’s praise kink making itself known fairly early on means that he getsthe reassurance he needs easier than Meyer does? like it’s easier for Meyer topick up on Charlie needing to hear what he needs to hear, but it takes a whilefor Charlie to chip away at what’s keeping Meyer from being able to accept thereassurance he wants/needs? I ACTUALLY HAVE A LOT OF FEELINGS ABOUT ALL OF THISBUT I HAVE TO GO TO BED SO I’M JUST GONNA STOP HERE
