Okay I am not supporting anything specifically it's just a comment. But being a girl with 4 sisters, 1 is bisexual when we go out for a night of fun the 1st thing that pops into our minds is "what is going to get a guys attention&what is going to look hot and attractive" & usually we invite friends&go out. & all of us including friends wear revealing stuff knowing that a guy is going to look at us He can control himself but we aren't really helping knowing what are intentions were. Thoughts?
Really, dressing “sexy” is dressing in a way that makes you feel good about your body. It’s wearing what makes you feel sexually attractive. This is one way of expressing confidence and positivity about your body, and that’s a good thing.
It makes sense that if you want to attract someone you would dress yourself in a way that 1) you feel makes you look appealing, and 2) you think is appealing to the type of person you’re trying to attract.
Even though you’re dressing with others’ reactions in mind, this doesn’t mean you’re dressing that way for men. Putting your best foot forward doesn’t mean that you’d welcome some ugly creep coming up to you and assuming that you’re dressed that way for him.
The idea of dressing for men doesn’t really work because you can’t narrow it down to looking attractive only to the men who you think are attractive. You see what I mean?
As for the way that men act toward you, wanting to look sexually appealing doesn’t always mean you want to be sexually acted upon. What you wear cannot speak for you. Remember, even if you do want to dance with someone or make out or have sex, you don’t feel that way about everyone, even though everyone sees you wearing the same outfit.
So it doesn’t matter what you wear and it doesn’t matter why you’re wearing it. If someone comes up to you being sexually aggressive, that’s on them, not you. They are the ones forcing their intentions on others.
