Dating
I’ve always had the mindset, that i was dating to marry. then i saw this tweet and it made me realise how toxic that mindset actually is.
nothing in life is forever. everything is constantly, always changing. moving is the basis of life. so looking at you and imagining, that you will become my constant, that you will become a still thing, thats just wrong, isn’t it? and how could i be so naive to put this burden onto you? you said it yourself, how much pressure that creates, how much it stresses you. and now i realise, i’ve been doing the same thing to me. i was pressuring myself, bombarding me with insecurities, questioning every little thing about you that’s just different from me, will this work, what if we can’t compromise, is this the right thing, am i making the right decision? all of that is bullshit that leads nowhere. instead i should focus on enjoying my time with you, the journey, the person, just you in your whole beauty. and whatever happens, happens.
