#dumpees

[memoryarchaeologist]

Dumpees don’t call ... Dumpees must never, never call. There’s no exception to that rule. None. Never call. Never. You can’t call.

John Green, An Abundance of Katherines

[nothinglessthanseven]

Books are the ultimate Dumpees: put them down and they’ll wait for you forever; pay attention to them and they always love you back.

An Abundance of Katherines by John Green

[thedreamer-and-therealist]

Day 130- Reminders

For all you fellow dumpees, here are a couple of reminders: 

You are beautiful/handsome

You are more than enough

You are loveable 

Allow yourself to grow through this experience

Allow yourself to grieve 

Take care of yourself 

Eat. I know you probably won’t have an appetite, but you need nourishment to keep your strength up. 

Get out there. Get some fresh air. Immerse yourself in nature. Find that change in scenery.

Surround yourself with positive people and positive vibes. 

The breakup happened for a reason.

You deserve to be loved. 

You will love again.

It’s going to be okay.

[iridescentmind]

The thing about getting dumped generally, and getting dumped by Katherines in particular, was how utterly monotonous it was. That's why people grow weary of listening to Dumpees obsess over their troubles: getting dumped is predictable, repetitive, and boring. They want to stay friends; they feel smothered; it's always them and it's never you; and afterward, you're devastated and they're relieved; it's over for them and just starting for you. And to Colin's mind, at least, there was a deeper repetition: each time, Katherines dumped him because they just didn't like him. They each came to precisely the same conclusion about him. He wasn't cool enough or good-looking enough or as smart as they'd hoped--in short, he didn't matter enough. And so it happened to him again and again, until it was boring. But monotony doesn't make for painlessness.

John Green, An abundance of Katherines

[licarol]

Books are the ultimate Dumpees: put them down and they'll wait for you forever; pay attention to them and they always love you back.

An abundance of Katherines, J. Green

[thecuriousflower-blog]

Books are the ultimate Dumpees: put them down and they’ll wait for you forever; pay attention to them and they always love you back

John Green, An Abundance of Katherines

[normafayad96]

“Books are the ultimate Dumpees: put them down and they’ll wait for you forever; pay attention to them and they always love you back."

Green, John. “An Abundance of Katherines."

[justponzi]

What is the point of being alive if you dont at least try to do something remarkable?