i feel like you'd be the best big sister ever. can i ask for advice for a college freshman who has basically no friends and feels alone?
aw hi pal
i was really lonely last year! my friends lived sort of far, and people were busy a lot. i met more people by making study groups and getting involved in clubs on campus, which sort of forced me to interact with people! for me, i went to any poetry/writing things, and jewish events (so much food!!!), and a few feminist things here and there.
don’t be nervous to talk to people in your classes! honestly it’s for your own academic benefit, like there should be at least one person in each class that you can text for notes if you’re sick.
and if you still have free time, embrace it! there’s little things that made a big difference last year: have i been outside in the sun today? am i eating proper meals? did i laugh today? i read a lot (a lot) and now i’m still able to devour books and hang out with friends.
i hope you feel better and have fun at school bb <3
