there's a select few idiots in the detrans kink/orientation play community that are following and interacting w cismen who are clearly actually transphobic/homophobic/misogynistic, some literally say it on their profiles .... i hope we all understand kink is not supposed to be self-harm and you're actively traumatizing yourself by doing this, while also making those dipshits very happy that you're helping them make trans identity and kink seem insane and harmful. this shit is not funny, and i fear some alt right asshole will find this through them and try to make the current moral panic even worse by putting a spotlight on the queer and trans kink community. you're not just harming yourself but also a community that tries hard to make a safe space for us to heal our fears and our wounds during a horrible time for queer people that makes it nearly impossible sometimes to be able to face them within the context of reality. kink has always been radical and leftist, and for this reason also always has bad actors trying to infiltrate and hurt vulnerable people, we need to make sure they feel uncomfortable and hear loud and clear that this space was not made for them.