#earbash

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Brat in the way that a dog needs enough stimulation and play time or they go back to their beaste ways and start chewing up all your favorite things.

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Master post or something

Hey call me Merritt 👋

I'm a 30-something, Non-binary grey-ace (demi) queer. My life is full of performing, chronic-illness, and a lot of creative hobbies.

I've been on (and off) Tumblr since 2009, and being back as an adult is a trip. There will be kink, sex, and non-traditional relationship structure posts here. You have been warned.

There is no rhyme or reason here. This blog is "a revisiting of my past" for a reason. I'm treating this the way I did when I was 13 and here the first time. Whatever is on my mind, comes across my dash, or is currently of interest will be here.

Tags

#earbash - my thoughts, ramblings, nonsense and added comments to posts

#chronic-ills - talking about disability, chronic illness and bitching about it generally

#life - updates directly related to me

#thot-process - nonsense mostly

#shower-thots - (sexual) nonsense mostly

#and-answered - responses to questions and anons

Tagged them all below for ease, will add to this as new stuff pops up.

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Merry Christmas I hope u get less depressing

ya me too, kid. me too.

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Referring to your parents by nicknames of their legal names when they do something confounding is very cathartic.

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Woke up from a dead sleep to the sound of someone knocking on ths back door of my apartment saying "hello?"

Only no one was there.

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Someone point me to a post about 80s alt fashion so I can scream about the fact that alt styles were actually intended to *not* fit and be styled to be flattering. The whole point is and always has been to not conform with societal expectations of behaving/being perceived.

Wear the ugly grandma clothes. Alter them to fit your tastes. But stop telling people the answer is to belt it and make a more defined shape and then it will "look good." No, embrace the blob. Do I have a body under here? Who knows! I could just be a pile of goo, and you know what? That's pretty punk.

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You know, when I was like 8, I rode my bike around my neighborhood by myself, crying, making up songs about being sad and alone.

So what I'm saying is, there really isn't hope for some people.

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A Language is a Dialect with an Army & Navy The wording of this definition has been revised since I created this comic. It now reads “To talk incessantly or at great length,”, ‘Ear-basher’ has its own entry (‘A person who talks excessively; a bore’), and the quotation has changed. The line from We Were Rats is now “Ya know them things he's often ear-bashing about.” This may be a different passage, or excerpted from an inferior translation, sadly missing much of the character of the original Australian.

Ear-bash, v., transitive & intransitive slang. (chiefly Australian). To talk inordinately (to someone). Hence ear-bashing, verbal substantive & participle adjective; ear-basher, a chatterer; a bore.  

‘Time for you bastards to do some spine bashing,’ said one. ‘Are you going to sit there ear bashing all night?’”

— Lawson Glassop 'We Were Rats', 1944

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