This is for anon. Anon, you can use your love for him as part of your motivation to recover, but you need to stop self harming purely for yourself. If you are not good to yourself, it will be so hard to be good to somebody else. It's hard to be able to fully love someone without the ability to love yourself. If you stop self harming, not only will your relationship strengthen, but most importantly, you will be able to live life to the fullest and find happiness. Stay strong, you are worth it. x
















