For a community that wears acceptance as a badge, you’re sure doing your best to stick me in one box or another, and trying to pry and barge into my private life for quite some time now.
Questions aren’t bad. Being demanding and even instigating shit like presenting rumors and assumptions as facts is. It’s ugly and it’s giving way to people to make my life a mess, and endanger me and the ones I love physically and mentally.
If you want answers from me, go ahead and answer my bosses about the emails claiming I am a pedophile, rumor started right here by a girl I left out of my life, and to her delusions, both as a friend or supporter. Tell my parents you “saw me” on gay porn site. Tell the guy who threatened to murder me, in public without anyone batting an eye, that you’re just being supportive and embracing me. Go ahead. Protect me, and say you just wanted me to be “non boring straight person”. Then you have all the rights to demand every answer from me.
There is a vast number of times I said I don’t think my sexuality is any of your concern, unless it’s your hole that I’m plowing. You might be coming from the good place, however...