Some things are within our power, while others are not. Within our power are opinion, motivation, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever is of our own doing; ..not within our power are our body, our property, reputation, office, and, in a word, whatever is not of our own doing. Epictetus, Enchiridion, 1
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