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Our Final Productions
Well, that's a wrap.
eLEEP Summer 2014 comes to a close, but not without these outstanding sexual health videos courtesy of our peer leaders with Boston's Start Strong, PLI, Family Van and VIP. Check them out and learn something!
Friends Without Benefits
"If you’re between 8 and 18, you spend more than 11 hours a day plugged into an electronic device. The average American teen now spends nearly every waking moment on a smart phone or computer or watching TV. This seismic shift in how kids spend their time is having a profound effect on the way they make friends, the way they date, and their introduction to the world of sex."
Nancy Jo Sales, author and journalist known for her Vanity Fair article which inspired the major motion picture "The Bling Ring," has a lot to say about today's young people and their means of an "informative" adolescence.
"Friends Without Benefits" follows young women from New York and LA whom Sales got to talking with concerning the effects of social media on their personal, sexual lives. With the use of social media sites including Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and dating apps like Tinder, Grindr, and Blendr, young men and women are creating a new approach to dating and sexual relationships—perhaps the only approach they know.
When your live exists and evolves on a 2"x4" iPhone screen, social media dating feels normal. Combined with the easily accessible online world of sex, screen-to-screen dating has an immense and often overlooked influence on young people and their understanding of what a healthy dating and/or sexual relationship looks like.
She wanted it to be like the scene in the Lana Del Rey video for “Blue Jeans”—“hot and slow and epic.” The scene where strangers meet and fall into an easy intimacy, making love in a pool—“and they look so hot and it’s just, like, totally epic.” A boy at her school—she didn’t want to talk about him now; he’d broken her heart; but “like, whatever.” She’d “deleted him” from her phone. “I was stalking him too much, seeing him doing fun things on Instagram, and it hurt.”
This snippet from Sales' "Friends Without Benefits" may sound familiar. As she zooms in on the online social scene it becomes apparent that one isolated case may be indicative of an entire generation. Let's prove her wrong.
Be sure to read "Friends Without Benefits," and check out this VF interview with Sales following the reception of the article.
