seen from Türkiye
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Some other type: You’re not sharing how you really feel. You’re not being honest about your emotions.
Me, a Nine (externally): Oh, I’m sorry! I’m just processing everything. . . .
Me, a Nine (internally): It’s called “being polite.” Maybe you could try it some time, numbnuts.
Me: My friends are so important to me!
Also, Me: *does not reach out first, goes weeks without contacting people*
That enneagram nine feeling. . . .
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but as an enneagram Nine, I’ve stopped referring to myself as “lazy.” Because I’m not. . . . But I do have trouble discerning my own priorities, so I tend to get very busy with things that seem to matter to other people. But I can be “slothful” in the areas of my own growth and desires (because I don’t always take the time to figure out what those are).
And if you are a Nine and you feel yourself running in circles trying to prove you aren’t “lazy,” maybe that’s not your problem either. Maybe your direction of growth and courage is not about “working harder,” but “working in the right direction.” And maybe that’s scary because it’s not always going to be in tandem with other people’s goals. Maybe you’ve been avoiding this because it stirs up some conflict inside yourself.
My mom thought it was awful in 1997 that I liked Push by Matchbox Twenty so much and she was definitely right and I stopped listening to it but... it made a resurgence in the Barbie movie so I listened to it a lot in 2023, I couldn't help it... and since everything started to go to hell not long after that movie came out I've been listening to songs from it for nostalgia purposes... and it just kind of slaps if you have anger issues what can I say
Kind of wish when Jesus said, "Blessed are the peace makers" that had He followed up with "for they shall have peace."
Enneagram Nines:
“What do we want?”
“PEACE!”
“When do we want it?”
“Oh, whenever works for you. . . .”
Secret Enneagram 9 test: Read about each of the personality types and think “That could be me. . . .” Until you get to 8s.
