#entitled much

[fantaxzia]

What nonsense am I seeing in the elriel tags now?

We should apologise to a liar? For what? For calling out their bullshit?

They lied to get popular in the fandom, and now those lies are catching up with them. Good luck with that.

[trexalicious]

Frogmore cottage, the "small" "quaint English cottage" the Sussexes lived in is 5,000 sq ft with five bedrooms, four bathrooms, and they added a nursery, two orangeries (because the Wales have one), and a yoga studio. I don't think "quaint cottage" means what they think it means...🙄

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle's 5,000 sq ft English cottage had a famous resident

Prior to life in Montecito, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex inhabited Frogmore Cottage

[doctortwhohiddles]

Tinhaters like this always make me laugh. I'm sure that Chris is very sad to lose Delulus like her as a fan.

If you stop being a fan of someone because they got married or found a partner, you never were a fan in the first place. You're, as Cumberbatch said back in 2016, a crazy, scary, delusional stalker.

If you think everything an actor does is PR, then you clearly see them as a product or an object, not a human being.

This particular Delulu is delusional in 2 ways. A) She thinks that Chris married Alba as a PR stunt but never talks about his private life. B) She thinks that Chris and Sebastian are a couple. Because yes, some of the Steve/Bucky shippers have transposed their head cannon into real life. That shit happens way too often.

[awesomedig]

I mean...

It’s not like I can talk to my therapist about this stuff... so I thought maybe talking shit on my own tumblr to get some steam off so I can start being productive again was a good idea. But sorry to have inconvenienced you by my existence. 

[doctortwhohiddles]

Again, if Tom and Zawe wanted attention, they would do photoshoots and interviews. They would post private pictures on social media. In short, they would do something that's bound to call attention on them from people outside the fandom. Being photographed doing every day stuff and having the pictures end up only on Weibo rather than in the press is not "getting attention".

Also, that anon isn't particularly subtle about her denial of Tom and Zawe's relationship. People who get engaged and have kids are more than platonically in love.

Then there's this absolute proof of entitlement towards Tom

This anon needs to be reminded that Tom is a human being and not a product. His private life is not entertainment. I've seen this with the Cumberbatch haters too. The haters were huge fans of him up until it was clear he wasn't single anymore. Suddenly, he became boring. Just like we're seeing with this anon. Tom didn't stay single to please his "fans" so now they have no interest in him. But instead of just leaving the fandom, they stay and bitch about their imaginary boyfriend isn't living to their demands.

As for why they aren't married yet, it's none of our business. There could be a million reasons. Maybe they're just waiting for their little boy to be old enough to participate in the wedding. Maybe they're already married and we don't know. Maybe they haven't had the time to plan it, etc. The tinhaters just need to be open and say they don't want Tom to marry Zawe because he didn't ask for their blessing. They'd sound slightly less stupid.

[doctortwhohiddles]

Wow, the entitlement is off the charts here. "Without us, he wouldn't be where he is today". I mean, seriously? Tom won an Oliver award before playing Loki. His career was doing fine before it. I honestly don't think world wide fame was his goal. He probably would have been just as happy to do theater for the rest of his life.

Tom is fully aware that he's much more known for Loki than any other of his roles. Plus, there were Loki fans long before he started playing him. If he uses "audience", it's more a show of respect than anything else. A respect that some of his fans have a hard time showing him.

I remember seeing a tweet back in 2016 from a so-called fan who threatened Tom's mom if he didn't break up with Taylor. I have a feeling that he became much more aware of toxic fans during that period. Tom has learned the hard way to set boundaries for himself. Sadly, some "fans" don't seem to understand that. To me, he looks much happier now than he did pre-2016. And not just because of Zawe. Because he learned that pleasing everyone wasn't possible and to ignore the nay sayers.

[doctortwhohiddles]

This is part of a word salad written by a Chris Evan tinhaters. When I mean tinhaters are over entitled jerks. So she thinks that because she's paid to watch Chris' movie he owes her an explanation about his private life? Seriously?

With "fans" like her, can you really blame him for doing everything to keep his wedding private.

[doctortwhohiddles]

Tell me you're pissed Ben got married without telling me you're pissed he got married.

No, just because Ben was unwillingly photographed with his family doesn't make his private life fair game. That's not how it works. Just because Ben occasionally talks about his private life doesn't make it fair game. That's not how privacy works.

Being pissed off a complete stranger got married and had kids doesn't give you the right to discuss, aka lie, about his private life. Specially when it comes to his kids. If you don't that, it makes you a crazy, scary, delusional stalker.