Could you explain the esogender thing in a different, simpler way? I’ve read that post six times and I still don’t get what you mean :(
Try to imagine a gender as a circle. There’s a certain definition to that gender, and a circle is defined by its radius. Now imagine picking any point on that circle- you might be closer to the center, for example. Where you are in that circle would be how you relate to a certain gender at any given time. However, you could change the location of that point, so that’s closer to the edge, or further to the right, etc. The circle would still be the same circle, just the point where you are in the circle would change. Likewise, your gender identity might be the same but how you relate to it could change. Some days you may feel more adrogynous, somedays more feminine, or neutral, but your gender identity would stay the same.