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Do you have an AO3 or something where all your stories are compiled? That way we can reread them and also kinda maybe read in order? Relative order anyway lol. Of Jude and Eden from the past until present. I know it probably wasn't written necessarily in order, but yknow.
I do have an AO3, however I'm not sure if it's all in order there, but you'd certainly be able to find fics easier.
I've got a masterlist on here too, but I think the only things in relative orders are the sagas!
What's it like getting used to sudden severe hearing loss in one ear?
Disorientating!
I’m going on this from personal experience (as I’ve got a hearing impairment which sometimes causes profound loss/tinnitus). Your entire person can be affected by a sudden loss of hearing - their actions are likely to be very different, e.g. favouring an ear which still has hearing, paying more attention to body/facial cues, even withdrawing from situations in which things may be “too noisy” as focusing with only one functioning ear can be immensely hard.
Depending on what age/stage a person is at, communication can be affected by this. If a person hasn’t already learned to speak, this definitely is affected by a hearing impairment.
Ears don’t just affect hearing though, quite often if there’s been a sudden dramatic loss in hearing, there’s something else going on inside the ear - whether this be infection, the hairs on the inside of the ear being damaged, the bones fusing. Often those with a hearing loss have issues with balance (as it’s controlled by the inner ear). Those with unilateral or bilateral hearing loss often suffer from headaches/tension headaches, and can get v tired or exhausted quicker - this comes from the effort of listening/lip reading/concentrating to make sure you pick up things around you. Problems with sleep are also common, particularly if you suffer from tinnitus (which a lot of people with hearing loss do, as the brain overcompensates for silence and “creates” noise).
If someone has lived for hearing loss for a while, the brain actually can begin to compensate for it, often by picking up on another sense.
But I can absolutely vouch that if it was to happen rapidly, or unexpectedly, disorientation would most likely be the first response. Then essentially the person would “re-learn” to hear with their other ear.
I hope this helps!
Your account just may be the best thing I've stumbled across recently. I'm in love with your work
This message absolutely made my day week!
Thank you so much! I do hope you enjoy, because this gives me joy - and it's so lovely that people still like it after I've been away for so long! 💙
I’m in college to become a grade school music teacher right now, & I’m scared my employers will find my emeto blog somehow 😭 Are you scared of this too? And do you have any advice?
Thank you for the ask! I have to admit, I have been concerned that people will find this blog in the past, however I'm old enough to have grown up in the days of the internet in which secret keeping was required. So for example:
this blog has no links to any other types of social media which may be taken as a "personal" account
I use a diminutive of my real name on this account
the only pictures of myself (i.e. my face) on this account are not anywhere else online, so a reverse image search couldn't be used to find them
As someone who previously recruited through a large employer in the UK, when most employers Google someone (though there are technical laws against this to do with privacy and discrimination), they are unlikely to deep dive - they'll look superficially at the first 4 , maybe 5 links and take their understanding from what they see there.
I use a separate email account for this blog and it has no links to any other accounts/platforms I use, it is for this and this alone.
These are my best pieces of advice. The other thing to remember is that most people aren't searching for deep dark secrets when they look at things online. They're looking for outright scandals and indications of anything that might influence safeguarding.
Just keep doing you 💙
the way u write vom noises is 👌👌👌 i love it soo much. glad to see u back!
Thank you so much!!
I remember when I first started writing them out onomatopoeically and SO many people were like ew no what are you doing? So messages like this are so appreciated! 👌💙
est!!! holy shit i was just wondering how you're doing the other day, happy to see you on my dash again
Hiii!!!
I'm doing good, just totally swamped in my first year of teaching 🫨 How are you doing??
As of the end of June I'm unemployed tho, so hopefully be back on here more 😂😂
I'm being referred to neurosurgery... Shit just got real
happy to see you back on my dash! i hope you're doing well 😊
Aaaw, it was so sweet to get this message! I'm totally choked full of the cold (thanks kiddo germs!), but I'm closer to the end of my course than the start - so that's a win!
Hope you're doing good too nonny! 😊
