🏩 What was my muse’s first time like? 💑 What are my muse’s requirements for a potential partner? 💘 What are the ways my muse says ‘I love you’ without actually saying it? (Eeeeeeve :D)
sex+romance headcanons!
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//Not as nerve-wrackingas it might be for some people during their first time, especially taking intoaccount the fact that Evela’s parents died when she was 11 and thus she nevergot a proper sex-talk from anyone. She had a very minimal knowledge of howthings worked/where things went, and was pretty nervous about the act itselfbefore it actually happened, so she put it off for as long as she could…whichwas about 3-4 weeks after she and Sigmund’s relationship went from platonic toromantic. Before then, there was definitely heavy make-out sessions thatsometimes turned into hands roaming places, but on the night she actually “didthe naughty” as my mother so endearingly puts it things escalated untiloops, there goes our clothes. It probably helped that Sigmund was romantic fora hunter, in a subtle “I’m playing this off as casual but there was probably allot of thought behind this” kind of way and had set up a midnighthike/candlelit picnic for her. Can confirm that, as far as first time’s go, itwas a fairly enjoyable/memorable one
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//Be Rowan. I feellike a large part of what Evela would need in any partner is someone who wouldnever try to change who she is. She doesn’t have a wild side; she is wild, and that’s who she will beuntil she draws her very last breath. She was born in the wild, and carries itin her blood, and anyone who tries to change that will be quickly cut from herlife. She doesn’t need them to share her wildness or even understand it, butthey must at least accept that it’s part of her nature and be willing to loveher for it.
//On top of that, Evelaneeds someone with the patience of a saint, because she’s very set in her waysand doesn’t tend to open up much in terms of even considering a second opinion.She knows her views aren’t the end-all of opinions, but as I’ve said, she hasher father’s Nord stubbornness. She needs someone who won’t try to smother her,who understands that she needs her freedom and trying to tell her what to dowill only end badly; on that same note, she needs someone who won’t let her getaway with just anything and who will argue with her when she’s beingreckless/doing something that’s damaging to either one of them and/or theirrelationship until she finally sees reason. Evela needs someone to remind herthat she may be Little Miss Independent, but that there will be times that sheneeds a shoulder to lean on and that its okay; she doesn’t need to be strongall the time, and remind her that no, the world isn’t working against her andshe doesn’t need to act like everyone needs to be treated like The Enemy untilthey prove otherwise.
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//Evela is fucking awfulat expressing such things, let me just start off with that. Not for lack oftrying, but she’s bad at putting into words/gestures how she feels aboutsomeone without just saying those three little words, and she knows it, and shefeels awkward trying to. Not that she doesn’ttry though.
//That being said, howmuch Evela might care for a person will likely be seen in how often she findsan excuse to touch them: lacing fingers, linking arms, resting her head on theirshoulder, kissing foreheads or cheeks, brushing stray strands of hair fromtheir eyes, or just running her fingers through their hair in general, thingslike that. She grew up with parents who expressed their affection to each otherthrough simple touch and she grew up thinking that was how you showed someoneyou loved them.