Charlie's fem archetypes (bad and good) in the media
+ Good, realistic archetype: you can be good, well behaved and still treated badly. Good behavior comes from thinking falsely that you staying kind will win you over people, it doesn't, because you could be too weak and outnumbered, esp those who won't listen, understand and are also morally weak.(
-Bad, false archetype: Everybody treats you well *if/when you are kind and behave well*. Even violent psychopaths. Everything's on you. Only exception if it's a single person treating you unwell, even then you can justify with that they treat everybody else badly (even if false or not. If it's in a fairyteller media, it's more likely a fem who's bitter or smth and "she needs a D" - spoken misognistically, married, a male, idk). If everybody is bad behaved, has weak morals and you have basically no safety "gear" (no hearing ear or support beforehand), it's your fault as a female. You are bad behaved and somehow other's behavior is based on you. And somehow others are polite, kind when they fake themselves and also said "hello". Yeah. Dumbasses. It's the Rapunzel (Disney) 3ffect.
The pressure and responsibility for other's treatment historically falls on a fem. (Eve's yucky wem effect (So Penelope's before her. Off topic: so tragic that the capital of greece is called after a fem God of wisdom and strength, yet greek men treat wems this badly. Idk.)
+ Good, realistic archetype: unless you're that kind of persona-"untouched". Coming from a privilege probably, where people can't be (directly) hating and harming or be more toxic to you and also can sometimes be better-adjusted or whatever, with there being your image, support of those connected /w you and who're aquintances with your family.