#fat masc

[sapphic-wasteland]

YOUR STOMACH IS HOT. YOUR STOMACH IS SEXY. YOUR STOMACH IS BEAUTIFUL. YOUR STOMACH IS HANDSOME. LET IT OUT, BREATHE. YOU ARE SAFE HERE AND YOUR BODY IS A WORK OF ART TO ME.

xo, a dyke tired of bullshit ♡

[fatphobiabusters]

-Mod Worthy

[fridgewater]

Currently overpowered by the service butch gods. I want a femme I can just do everything for, for no other reason than that they're pretty and they fancy me. Like I want to cook all her meals, drive her everywhere, take her shopping and hold all her bags, build and move furniture so everything's just where she wants it, take her out for dinner and pay 100%, listen to her vent about all her work drama and always take her side. I just want it to be full knight x princess vibes.

And of course if she's a bossy, yappy pillow princess with a big appetite and the belly to prove it, even better. Let me order for you as we go round the drive thru then stuff your face on the way home, whining each time I take my hand off your belly to change gear. Make me bring you food to the couch and sit on the floor with my head on your thighs so I can lovingly look up at you while you eat, kissing your thighs and belly to beg you to let me eat you out as you stuff yourself.

[transandrogyny--turtlebug]

Sort of unrelated but your recent post about fatphobia against men made me think about how, as a fat trans guy, I feel like the only presentation I'm "allowed" to be is a bear.

I see quite a few posts about how hot fat men are... but they only ever mean bears.

What about androgynous fat men? Feminine fat men? Anything other than hypermasculine? It feels like you have to overcompensate for your fatness by being super masculine if you dare want to exist as a fat man. I've never seen a fat man be considered a femboy.

It makes it really hard to tell what I want out of transition. I don't want to be hypermasculine, I want to be androgynous or even a bit feminine. But what does that look like? I can find a million transition goal inspiration for skinny androgynous and feminine guys, I can find a million for fat hypermasculine bears. I can't find shit for androgynous and feminine fat guys.

Fat (especially queer) men are shoehorned into one specific, sort-of-acceptable box, basically.

Yeah, I mean it's great we have positivity and love for masc bears, big happy that we're doing that because the world is so cruel to fat people, but there is no space for fat femmes or androgynous people in the same way right now because femininity and androgyny are things that skinny people do.

That's honestly, I was thinking about this earlier, but being fat itself is gender non conformity in a lot of ways, because thinness is a part of gender presentation, you get to explore gender more when you're thin. If you're fat you have to be hypermasc or hyperfem to overcompensate the inherent degendering that happens to fat people

[meaniezuchinni]

I was writing a response to a post but then my tumblr went weird and it alll vanished (and of course I cant find the post now. *sigh*)

It was an anon talking about how it sucks that the only fat masc inspo is for Bears (nothing wrong with bears). Anon wanted more feminine masculinity and androgyny to be an okay way to be as a fat guy. And easier to find inspo for.

Fatphobia and gender norms/policing of "the right way to look" for your size/gender go hand in hand. And anon was noticing that fat bear/hyper masculine seems to be the only "ok" way to transition into a fat guy.

So i was throwing together some of my fave fat 'guy' inspo.

Harvy Guillén ->

He always has a lovely mix of clothing, especially on the red carpet where he doesnt usually wear traditionally masc things.

Nikhil Kapoor ->

I will admit they are probably a fave of mine. He started as fat androgyny/fat guy fashion inspo on social media and now they've started their own clothing line called Posh Heat.

Jordan Underwood ->

They lean a bit more masc in their clothing, but not always! Jordan is a model and does all sorts. Really good stuff.

More to the masc side (but I'd argue not a bear(?)) Bonus:

Richmond Rockson ->

He's fat. He's fine. He's fashion. <3

I hope the random anon finds this haha, but if not, enjoy.

@fatphobiabusters maybe it was your post I couldnt re-find?

Also, random anon: Pinterest has weirdly good fashion inspo so long as you put the word "fat" and "androgyny" in your search (and i'd argue you should use an adblocker cause otherwise pintrest sucks)

[franknfeeder]

heard you like big tboys 🧡 once I find a leather belt over 50 inches it’s over for you bitches

(they/them) not a gainer

[pudgylittlepuppy]

i’m getting chubby 😫

[bellyenby]

This is after a large pepperoni pizza, 5 bloat pills and 2L of water. Gained a few new stretch marks from how overfull I was last night. I’m so heavy today that I can’t stand up! Guess I have to order dinner in again 🤭