#fatwriting

[makeamericaeatagain]

Health scare, but instead of shocking you into diet and exercise, it causes you to double down on extreme gaining by reminding you how short life really is

[alternative-ffa]

My brain has definitely been trained over the years to find fat absolutely perfect on a man. I always had that desire; but at this point, it's so normal for me. I forget most of the time that that viewpoint is very rare.

Occasionally I get reminded of it.

I'm in a FB group for wives. Just a regular advice group. Nothing special. I never post; but I never need advice.

I saw a post the other day from a woman asking for advice. But her ask made my blood boil.

She said her husband had put on weight and had a belly. She wanted advice as to how to handle her situation as she finds it disgusting. She said she can't even have sex with him because his gut disgusts her.

Like... WHAT?!

I know my brain isn't mainstream in its opinions. But it was a reality check. A small belly on a man causes such disgust? I didn't even know how to mentally process that. The fatter the belly, the sexier the man. I can't possibly imagine feeling disgust at a small belly. The only time I would, is if that small belly was a result of weight loss.

Am I insane? If so... I'll gladly accept that insanity.

Fat is sexy. It always will be. And it breaks my heart to think of all the bigger men out there who only experience rejection and criticism for their size.

This woman refused to go near her husband because he had a small belly. What on earth does that say about me, who constantly dotes on the fat belly and body of my BHM?

I guess, I don't think it's fair. A man puts on weight and it's "disgusting"?!

Maybe it's the damn diet culture. I dunno. But any criticism towards a bigger body just bugs the shit out of me. Everyone deserves to be desired. ♡

Especially if it's your husband. You married him for who he is as a person, and he puts on a small amount of weight that settles on his belly... how can you deprive him of sex because he is slightly chubby?

My experience of sex with my BHM is the struggle to navigate the fat. To be able to lift his belly on top of me... feeling the weight of it pushing me down. The limited positions just to get him inside of me. We have to be creative. Pillows are the best tool.

I love every pound on my BHM. I can't imagine being a wife that is bothered by a slight weight gain on my husband.

If I had my choice, he'd get huge. Sex would become impossible. Food and feeding would occupy any sexual interaction.

If you are an FFA/feeder... enjoy your partner. Relish in the hundreds of pounds of fat. Because there are people out there who hate it. People who think even a small belly is disgusting. They need to be put in their place.

Let's smother our fat men with love and attention. It's the epitome of gorgeousness.

[makeamericaeatagain]

Feeder who secretly thinks they're getting the better end of the deal by manipulating their feedee to get obscenely fat

🤝

Their feedee who secretly thinks they're getting the better deal by manipulating their feeder to wait on them hand and foot

[makeamericaeatagain]

Used to be thin

You’ve gotten so comically obese that your new friends won’t believe you were ever thin. “I can prove it!” you insist, whipping out your phone. You scroll back quickly, blurring past the photos of your double chin, past the family dinner where you were bursting out of your outfit, as far back as your camera roll can go. But then you reach the end and...you’re still fat. You swipe desperately - there must be more photos! But there aren’t.

“They must be on my old phone,” you whisper, defeated. Your friends nod sympathetically, but you can see the skepticism and pity in their eyes.

Without those old photos, there’s no proof that you were ever thin. To the world, you’re just another lifelong fatass, clinging to a delusion. Now you even start to doubt yourself. Maybe you were never thin at all....

[makeamericaeatagain]

Financially disciplined girl who rarely treats herself, but if someone else is buying the food she'll keep eating as long as you put more in front of her.

[makeamericaeatagain]

It's not my fault that seeing hot fat girls makes me want to eat!

[makeamericaeatagain]

Keep making excuses

I want to hear them all. Every single attempt to rationalize and shift the blame for why you've turned into a massive fatass.

You've got a slow metabolism

It's your genes

It's your parent's fault

It's the fast food industry's fault

It's society's fault

You had a rough day and deserve a treat

You've just been too busy to exercise

You're too tired to cook healthy tonight

You'll get to it tomorrow

Plus healthy food is too expensive

You're healthy enough, a little more food couldn't hurt

Exercise makes you too sweaty and tired

Diets don't work anyway

You'd hate to give up your favorite foods

Besides, you're not *that fat*

Anyway, a little extra weight is fashionable these days

Keep them coming. Any excuse that will keep you sedentary and stuffing your face. Whatever it takes to avoid the deep truth: you're a glutton and always will be.

[alternative-ffa]

How rare it is! To see such a large man. I don't get that opportunity often. But it's just a tease anyway. I'm a married woman, and I am loyal to a fault. I'll deprive myself of any kind of joy with a man who's size I adore. But, it doesn't mean I won't look.

Eye candy is one thing. Acting on it, is another.

But why can't us FFAs get the same amount of public eye candy as everyone else? Women with a "normal" (fuck normal) attraction to fit men... they see eye candy everywhere. How come I'm attracted to something that I can barely ever see in public? And why do I have to hide my interest, when I do?

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