#feedism asks

[ggcc1]

How is it going gut-wise for you two?

The wife is soft and squishy and lovely as ever 🥰🥰🥰 but she’s more maintaining rn and might workout a little bit to take care of some health issues. In the meantime, I’m kinda taking up the feedee role and trying to increase my calories wherever I can while she fawns over my full belly 🤤. I wanna post when I get some more substantial results but rn I’m still working on thickening up lolll but here’s me last night when I was soooo full and the most recent pic of the lovely lady <3

[sapthick]

Do you have an outfit that you love wearing in private and in public?

Hmmmmm I mostly wear a super casual fit with high waist stretchy jeans and crop top at home and outside.

If i wanna doll up i go for mini dresses and corsages tbh.

[abyssalfeeder]

I had a freaky experience today, I had to cut myself out of my T-shirt because I legitimately could not get it off. Since I’m getting so fat, my T-shirts have been far too small for me. My neck and chins are too big for some of the neck holes! This morning I crammed one on, but it was pretty much a crop top, most of my belly apron hung out. Anyway by the end of the day, I had eaten so much that I could not get the hem over the bloated top portion of my belly. Eventually, I kind of had a panic attack and frantically cut it off. Then I just kind of had a post binge clarity moment. Here I am at 24, drenched in sweat and gasping for breath after getting too fat for a shirt that fit a few months ago, oozing onto my living room floor in just my panties. So many of my friends are doing stuff with their lives, meanwhile I’m grunting trying to sit up after eating myself sick. It’s so scary feeling the daily tightening of my clothes, because I know I’m getting even bigger, but I also know there’s nothing I can do to stop myself.

Oh there is plenty you could do, little pork chop. You could diet, you could exercise, you could even do as little as just not gorging yourself sick. You could do those things, but I know that you know, you just really don't want too, and as much as the realization scares you. You're here because you like the thrill. Knowing you're cramming untold calories down your throat that will turn into more layers of juicy jiggly adipose. How loud is the voice of reason these days? Barely a whisper id wager, seeing as how you've found your way to me.

Do you want to earn praise?

Eat an extra helping for me tonight.

[cult-mommy]

Do you ever forget you're fat?

All. The. Time.

Most of the time I think I’m skinny and look how I used to before I gained all this weight. I don’t realize how big I am until I see pictures and watch videos back. 🥵 the total opposite spectrum of body dysmorphia. Lol

I also don’t feel like I’m fat enough to not fit in “normal” sizes in retail stores. I still get surprised when nothing fits and I’m too big for the biggest sizes. lol

[jesterafterdark]

All i do is eat, game, and get off (while eating) and honestly i want to get to the point where I need a nurse to take care of me 🥴

This is the attitude I need people to have. Get to see someone blow up like a balloon because I'm taking such good care of them is my dream <33 Watching them get more and more dependant on me until they can't function without me? That's the cherry on top <33

[morbidlychubese]

how do you feel about the idea of being totally dependent on carers? about being too fat to do literally anything for yourself? i can’t stop thinking about you being so helpless that you’re having to be cleaned up daily.

To be honest, the idea sounds wonderful. Caring for myself is already so much of an effort each day. I'd much rather have it all done for me, especially if the reason I can't bother with the effort is because I'm too helpless to do it myself. Too much fat fighting my arms and legs for space and strength that doing much of anything besides eating becomes an unpleasant memory. Tying my shoes, for example, becoming a herculean task due to the massive and soft belly taking up so much space. Eventually, I won't even wear shoes since it'll be too much to leave my bed for more than a few minutes. Being cleaned by someone else is just simply adorable!! Its a major mental reinforcement of how helpless eating has made me. All of me being pushed, held, and jostled to keep me clean. I'd probably blush a whole lot. Plus, it's a little embarrassing to be dependent on another for something I did to myself, and that makes me feel fuzzyy.

My inbox says it's open for business!! I'm gonna answer asks as I get them. I really do love hearing people's ideas!

[dreamingfeedee]

ex military getting fat is so hot

What if I told you I got to my highest weight while I was actually still in 👀👀

[kuchisabishiigwa]

Immensely disappointed with how the feedism community feels less and less like the hedonistic oasis that bonds and connects us all on a deeper level that we long for , a part of The human experience... And more and more like a shallow arena built on competition where we throw shallow compliments to those who gain weight but have no actual desire to know them past their weight. A lifeless soulless capitalistic attention grab to fill ego rather than actually connect with a feeder / admierer and build something beautiful with. Why are we all so shut off from each other... Is it just me? I'm a feedee and this is something I struggle with when it comes to the community as a whole. I just don't feel included. And I can't tell if it's because I'm right about the lack of vulnerability and trust in this space or if I'm the only one receiving this treatment,where I'm always being held away at arms length 😕

Environment and community have so much to do with it our experience.

Candidly, I used to feel this way before I felt comfortable in my own skin and put out what I wanted to do in myself. (HRT helped a LOT for me.)

There's a lot of people in the world who don't share chemistry with us, and that's okay! People should be allowed to choose their company as we do.

This kink is hedonistic, but a lot of people are just looking to be seen in their expression, just like you! I personally do not consider people who do not consider me when it comes to vulnerability.

I am unapologetically going to be myself, and I'm going to walk away from situations where I'm expected to change that and be palatable in a self betraying way. Many people move on and I have lonely episodes, but the ones who stick around are as fiercely into me as I am into them and there is no apology for who we are and what we love.

Feedism is something we can all relate to, but finding a mutual vibe in it takes time and patience, like in any relationship. I know it's all about craving and desire here but, it takes time.

Stay positive, I think you just need to find out what sorts of experiences you want to have with it and learn how to communicate it <3 keep learning until you find what works for you.