46, 57, 10 <3 (oversharing ask meme)
10 - Who do you wish you’d treated differently?
ive already answered that one but i could try thinking of something else! Possibly some members of my family? When I realised I was trans, my parents forbade me to tell anyone else in the family, and as a result, I avoided seeing my grandparents, uncles, aunt, and cousins; because getting misgendered all the time and not being able to tell them was too painful. I already didn’t have as close a relationship with my oldest cousin (she’s now 14) as I wish I did, because despite them living very close, we never went to visit bc my aunt works w my parents so they see each other all day long and dont wanna spend time together outside of work, which sort of sucks. Now I’ve moved to a different country and I have no idea how I’m gonna mend that relationship in the future, i feel like i missed out on being part of her childhood. As for my grandparents, well, it’s pretty obvious, they’re old people, their time is limited, and I wish I’d spent more time with them while I could, even if it wouldve meant telling them i was trans against my parents’ wishes (which I ended up doing, but only after I moved to Scotland, so I never really got to spend a lot of time with them as their grandson).
46 - Have you ever taken a fall for someone?
I know for a fact I have, but I just can’t recall a specific example? probably a few times for my brother (even tho he’d never have done the same for me), probably also a few times for friends but i just??? cant think of anything.
57 - Have you ever betrayed someone who trusted you?
definitely, but once again, cant recall something specific? nothing major tho as far as im aware, i dont think?
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