Honestly I don’t think Mai would ever date Aang because her standards and boundaries are stronger than that. Aang would probably go crawling back to someone like Meng who would stroke his ego constantly and tell him how special he is
We have wildly different views of Mai. I don't think they would stay together, but I could see Mai being bored enough to date Aang for a while. Especially if he had enough money to buy her things and she could get special treatment as the Avatar's Girlfriend. I could see Aang being intimidated enough by her to at least keep his flirtations with his fans at least discrete. Mai would probably not stroke his ego the way his fans do, or coddle him the way Katara did, but I think she would encourage the selfish, short-sighted part of him in a way that would make him feel like he was actually making grown up decisions for himself, when in reality, he's just being manipulated by Mai's subtle digs about his maturity and manhood, and being a flashy show off to prove a point.
Let me be perfectly clear here. They would not be good together. At all. But they would be interesting while they lasted at least. They are a reality show couple waiting to happen.











