I think fandom experience would improve by a whole lot if people could manage to not make everything about shipping and instead recognize that there are other meaningful feelings and bonds aside from romantic ones that are just as valid and important and by always limiting relationships to romance/acting like romance is the highest of bonds reduces characters to a fraction of who they are, which in turn often leads to fanon versions that emphasize a few selected aspects of the character rather than allowing for deeper conversations and more insightful interpretations of the character in question











