@laylainalaska We didn’t get the letters cooling but oh, all the h/c… So many happy memories! And the general acceptance of threesomes and other poly arrangements did a lot for me, too. I was surrounded by pretty conservative people (in a very liberal country mind) and it definitely helped make a lot of concepts feel perfectly natural when I encountered them in real life later on.
I KNOW RIGHT?? :D It’s really kind of amazing to me how ahead of its time Elfquest was in a lot of ways. The early stuff still holds up amazingly well, especially given that it was written almost 40(!!) years ago. As well as the hurt/comfort obviously being a big thing, I had no idea when I was a kid how much of a good influence it actually was - the casually-accepted poly relationships, and generally equal relationships between couples; female characters all across the spectrum of gentle mothers to badass warriors to morally gray ally/antagonists to outright evil. The major couple was interracial (apparently one thing that made them pull out of a cartoon deal for the show in the 1980s was because the network nixed the interracial couple, which just, wtffff???) and a lot of the storylines also dealt with prejudice and learning to come to terms with people very different from yourself. Not that it was perfect, it could be quite heavy-handed in some ways and some of the gender dynamics in the early romance stuff are a definite product of the ‘70s, but all in all, if I was going to obsess on something when I was a kid, it wasn’t a bad influence, I think. :D