"Fray culture is enjoying the rampant romantic and sexual attraction like an allo in the beginning of a relationship and then hoping it develops into something deeper after you know each other. Because you hope the bond is more than sex and romance"
I'm not sure this anon really understand what fray- means
Hey nonnies, it’s okay to feel fray- differently. The fray definition is romantic and/ or sexual attraction (depending on whether frayromantic, fraysexual, or both) is lost after you develop an emotional bond with the person (the opposite of demi).
Some Frays still feel platonic love and tertiary attractions after losing romantic and/or sexual attraction. And some Frays don’t.
As with any sexual or romantic identity it’s meant to be descriptive and not prescriptive.