Sorry I have been busy with school and work, but yes, workguy came through <3
We haven't established anything big and we are still a little awkward, but I have a lot more confidence with this outcome than at the beginning of the work season. He wants to hang out when we get laid off for the winter and said it would work out more because then neither of us really have school or work. He and I were going to go and see Peepaw, but unfortunately, he was out of town today and idk if we can go after halloween since I am going out of town Thursday-Sunday. I do plan on asking and seeing if he wants to maybe go to a haunted house with me after he gets out of work on halloween though!
He has been very sweet to me though and he shows me tons of memes and I love it lmao. Plus he has interests in the music I like and if the interest was real, I might have someone to go with me and see Static-x in April :)
The only slight downfall is he might be moving next year about 4ish hours away for family matters. Which is chill because I feel like our connection is a LOT stronger so I think the distance would be alright. Plus the school I wanna transfer to is about an hour closer to him :) I have a couple plans and am hoping they will let him know that I am in fact interested in him because my anxiety isn't allowing me to just straight up tell him. I try to and I get super anxious and nearly send myself into a panic attack since I am worried he'll wind up like the last couple of guys I've fallen for and they rejected/ghosted me or used me. I truly don't think he would ever do anything horrible, and I truly do think he likes me back, but my anxiety is being stubborn lmao. Hopefully, it all works out. I am hoping tomorrow I can maybe pull a move
Also I have put myself on anonymous because I think he has tumblr and idk if I can handle him having my tiktok and Tumblr LMAOO Idk how he would find this, but it makes me feel better so </3
Sorry this took me fucking ages to respond to, I’ve been slacking on asks because I’m so up in my head and my feelings and it’s been a whirlwind.
I am legitimately so happy for you! I’m glad that it wasn’t a bad ending like we thought it was. I’m really glad he pulled through and that you guys are figuring things out. No need to establish things right away, just enjoy it for what it is right now, worry about the rest later 🖤 maybe you guys can watch PeePaw together on Peacock? And a haunted house would be fun!
And he likes the same music? That’s always a plus, y’all can sing in the car together and not argue about what to turn on (well, there will always be moments but still)!
Long distance is difficult but I think it’s possible to do. You guys could meet halfway on some weekends or something! I don’t think he’ll ghost you or reject you or use you, especially not if he was hung up on you enough to reach out again after silence. I don’t think it’s like that.
And omg omg work guy might have a tumblr? Shit we’ll keep your identity lowkey then when it comes to work guy updates 🖤
