#frezarion

[kittykat8311]

I'm so sorry you have to keep dealing with that disgusting bullshit. I'm pretty sure they find you through tags, but without knowing which ones specifically, that doesn't help much, and just not tagging anything comes with plenty of downsides. Tumblr really needs a serious block feature, or ways to delete your post from other people's blogs, or a dozen other things that would give you more control over your presence and experience on the site. *hugs and hot chocolate*

Thanks love. I used to think they found me through tags so I stopped using any tags to do with being transgender, and yet they still find me? I'm just truly sick of it. I've woken up really early to go have a nice day out and I find my day ruined already. Fuck all this. Thank you though.

[kittykat8311]

frezarion replied to your photo“Apparently I couldn’t take a single photo where my smile looked...”

I HAVE THAT SAME PROBLEM MY SMILE ALWAYS LOOKS LIKE CRAP UGH

IT IS SO HARD TO FORCE A SMILE ISNT IT?!

[kittykat8311]

this is like my 3rd ask in 10 minutes but damn girl I just finally hit some of your pics and holy shit you are freaking slaying! You look killer in all those outfits and ugh I love it <3

Awww thank you lovely!! You're way way too kind, honestly <3

[kittykat8311]

I saw something about thigh highs and SockDreams will 100% work for you. They have a HUGE selection, about half their stuff isn't too pricey, and virtually all of their stuff is intended to fit everyone, even up to plus sizes - usually that means max stretch calf/thigh circumference measurements, but if they're not stretching around then they'll stretch farther up. I'm 5'7" and have a pair I can pull up onto my butt cheeks lol. International shipping too!

This is a very popular suggestion today! I will most definitely have a look after work, thank you my dear!! Hopefully they can accommodate my ridiculously lanky and long legs xD

[kittykat8311]

and I just saw that someone else recommended sockdreams hahaha I don't order from there much but they do have really nice stuff

Haha, yea! Popular suggestion ^_^

[kittykat8311]

gdi tumblr you better not have eaten that damn ask but if it did here's a short version of it: you look hella fine, hon. do you look trans? yeah probably, but I do too, and I get gendered correctly most of the time, cause clothes and makeup go a long way toward that. you're a woman, and you look like society's idea of one when you try to even if you don't when you don't try to, and you still are one either way. just need to build confidence. you'll get there, sweetie <3

Ahhh I’m going to guess this is from the other day?? Thank you my dear, its very sweet of you to take the time to say such kind things. It does seem confidence is the key, so I guess we shall see <3

[kittykat8311]

frezarion replied to your post“Its weird, I have a wardrobe full of clothes, and I have a website...”

The future is hella scary, and stagnation is very common and very easy. Not taking a step doesn't always mean you WANT to stay still. But you should see a therapist. Even if you end up not going for transition, it can help you sort yourself out

It is it is. Maybe you're right. How do you even go about starting therapy? Does it have to be through a doctor? I hate the idea of being passed from gatekeeper to gatekeeper and poked and prodded and measured and blah

[nerdytranswoman]

☀ <3