So this is a little uncalled for....
Recently, my friend group had welcomed back a very dynamic character into the picture. This character and I have had many issues and situations which have made me realize that I don’t need that type in my life at the moment. Seeing as how this person had caused many problems in my life and surrounding people in my environment, I thought it was the best thing to do as to just not be close to this person and keep my business to myself. Now, my best friend at the moment used to be very best friends for three years with this character and I had no argument whatsoever when my best friend told me she wanted to fix things with them. I simply refused to come with her because I believed it was useless to fix things. They had proven many times that causing problems and separations between people were repetitive and unchangeable. No matter the amount of times they cried or apologized, nothing changed. So during the period where this character and my best friend and I were not friends, my best friend and I grew closer and talked almost everyday. I have now realized that was all for show and a method of replacement for the previous character in my best friends life. Now that this character has returned I have seen my “best friend”: not text me, not telling me things first, not bother to invite me over, defend the character for rude habits and actions towards me.
It is for this reason that I have deemed myself as a rebound in my “best friends” life and I have also concluded that I deserve better. I have made this conclusion in the spam of 5 days which has been the duration since they fixed things between each other. This also shows that in the spam of 5 days, things could change as quickly as possible.
My trust issues are now put back to where they should be. Front and center.
