#friends rant

[roeyliterati-twinflame-love]

I was watching Friends, and Ross and Rachel were fighting because he slept with the copy girl and he blamed Joey and Chandler for him not telling her and Chandler said "wax the door shut we're never leaving" 😅 I bursted out laughing my favorite line from this show just the delivery, his expression it was so funny and I was laughing so hard my mom came in my room because she thought I was screaming! 😅

I felt so sad for Rachel 🥺 She was like I used to think of you as someone who would never ever hurt me. Ever. 😭 He hurt her so much, and its the fact that he refuses to take accountability for how he hurt her! He was like "I don't cheat, I'm not Joey" first of all you did even if he didn't cheat on a technicality she felt cheated! He invalidated her, refused to take accountability, and even blamed Joey!

Joey didn't cheat! Yeah he sees a lot of women, but he isn't in active relationships with them and when Joey is in love or in a relationship he is loyal! It just pisses me off how he refuses to take accountability for how he hurt her and wants to put the blame on someone else! He never takes full accountability for how he hurt her!

But man Chandler and Joey stole the show! Also them eating the wax because they couldn't leave the room and Chandler making faces his face gets me and then Joey kind of being intrigued by the taste! 😂😅

[sky-intrepid-heroes]

Say what you want about the relevancy/ quality/ funniness of the show friends but the scene where Phoebe is talking to the triplets after giving birth will never fail to make my heart wretch

Seriously such a selfless and crazy thing for her to do (carrying a child for her brother whom she pretty much just met) and her character constantly does crazy (to other outside people that aren't Phoebe like marrying an ice skater so he could have a green card) and selfless things all the time and it's constantly played off as humorous fodder for the show as a supplementary side bit to shadow behind the arcs of other characters like Rachel and Ross. This also happens to Joey his kindness and devotion as a friend is constantly undercut by him being "the dumb one" or the himbo/man child when he truly loves his friends (chandler and Ross especially) and would do whatever need be to ensure their happiness (ie: keeping Monica and Chandler a secret) In this essay I will-

Edit: I don't think I realized that I cared this much but I love Phoebe with all my heart and Joey too they deserve the world

[creatingnikki]

Ross is a complete idiot

And an ass hole. If I were to even ignore the whole “we were on a break” mess, the fact that he says Rachel’s name when he’s getting married to Emily and then yet asks Rachel to come to his Honeymoon trip to Greece when Emily is nowhere to be found...I mean WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. 

The fact that Rachel said yes is problematic too but she’s not the one who just got married less than 24 hours ago and already fucked up enough to make her partner run away.  

Everyone who ships Ross and Rachel, can you please just watch the whole show again? And forget about shipping them. Anyone who actually likes Ross as a character...how? Would you honestly want someone like that in your life? He’s such an insensitive, entitled, insufferable man. 

[blairbuttercup5]

D1 annoyed me a lot last week, she basically said she's copying Meowbah with her pfp and it was madoka one

It annoyed me so much bc madoka is one of my favorite characters and I don't want her to be associated with Meowbah.

Like why am I still her friend, she's been ruining all my favorite characters

[blairbuttercup5]

Another rant about my friends on the others are.

In my last post I gave them nicknames, I already explained D1, now gonna talk about the other 2.

D2, this person is annoying bc whenever I tell D1 about the 'pfp crisis and with the aesthetics' she always intervenes and says I am over exaggerating and gatekeeping the characters.

And yes I am only bc you don't know them and don't even like the characters. Like D1 doesn't even know or hates the characters so that what makes me angry when she uses them.

Also I hate talking on the gc whenever I want to state my opinion on something bc D2 always defends D1 and vice versa whenever I have different opinions with them. This is why I hate talking there bc no one has the same preferences or opinions as me and if I don't like something they do, it ends up in an argument which is like a 2 vs 1.

Now with C, I have nothing to rant about her bc she's actually nice but she doesn't talk on the gc a lot so I always have to defend myself.

Back to D2, last week, I said I am sad that the live action of snow White is coming on my birthday and she was like I can't hate a movie that didn't come out. And I was like I am still gonna do that. And then it went to an argument of the main actress playing snow White and omg she kept defending her to me when I said I just don't like her.

Then I commented to them, the snow White dress they were using in the live action looked ugly, D1 got involved and started bashing me about the dress.

And was arguing about the dress to me and was like 'omg you don't like snow whites dress' and I was explaining to her that I don't like the one they used for the live action.

This is why I hate speaking in the gc with my opinion on anything like the holiday truly sucks and I ain't even looking forward with school bc most of the arguments has been happening on the gc

If you read about my rant about D1 and her using my favorite characters as aesthetics with her pfp. Majority of the images she gets from Pinterest and this is weirding me out that most of the pictures she used (I think all) for her pfp were on my Pinterest boards.

Like nearly all of them, she doesn't have any Pinterest boards with Mari / pinkie pie/ madoka/ Fluttershy/ my melody. Like the exact same pictures are on mine.

This is just weird

[chiefreviewhologram-blog]

So a friend of mine recently expressed her opinion of our school to me and I figured I may as well share it here where people can relate. for the sake of her privacy I’ll call her Nana, a nickname her younger sister calls her.

Nana is someone close to me and the explosion of vehemence and anger from this normally kind and gentle person had me stop as she brought up a subject from class. we were told to look up a current environmental problem/event and voice our opinion on it. after five minutes of surprisingly being unable to find a problem she settled on an article covering the appearance of a desert full of flowers. she told me "this is something that is actually amazing, I don’t know exactly why there were such early rains that made the flowers grow but I think it’s great! we don’t need to spend all our time looking at the dark and dower events of life, it’s not a crime to look at the good points.”

Nana later restated this opinion to me practically yelling “I’m tired of all this SHIT they throw in our faces, can we not focus on everything bad for two seconds!? I get that people are suffering! I get that the holocaust was bad and that it was wrong! I get that things aren’t great right now! but we don’t need to shoved in our face every single second of the day! They want to improve the country and world? Then teach the youth of today to be better people for tomorrow! Teach them to care about each other! Teach them to think, Teach them to care, teach them to love, and flipping teach them to have compassion! 

“But you don’t and cant do that my screaming at them for everything they’ve done wrong, that’s not how it works! what goes around comes around so it you only ever scream at the children of today about all the profanity and horribleness of today that’s all you’ll be getting from them tomorrow! because that’s all you’ve ever shown them so it’s all they know how to do!”

she finished with a statement I agree with-

“You can teach people about the bad without shoving it in their face, and you can teach them about the good without making them sheltered. the trick is to show them equal amounts of both and let them voice opinions but always gently guide them towards the light. they can talk about how bad things are and how they don’t like it, but don’t leave it at that. we are the future so don’t let us just sit in self pity and darkness, make us problem solve and pull our generation out of the hole it’s stuck in.”

I’d like to hear anyone else’s opinions of this matter, just please try to be a little respectful if you happen to disagree.

[valverres]

another rant part 2

if B is too dependent on me, A is too distant. we barely talk. we dont meet each other in personal chats, only group chats. the only way i’d tell her i love her is through my random twitter rants. it’s been 8 years. why the fuck are we still so awkward w each other? she made a poem to me, i posted it somewhere in may, i was ecstatic about it because i dont get this kind of shit in years. other times of the year i would question our friendship. 

she doesnt like people touching her, and i only knew this a few yrs ago. i used to hug her alot in high school. i was all up in her space, and it kind of breaks me to know she doesnt feel comfortable all this time. 

it’s fine, okay, i get it.

i just feel like im thirsty for her. im chasing someone who doesnt even look back to me. i miss her wherever i am, i wanted to be w her all the time, i wanted her presence more than my other bestfriends.

i thought i was in love w her. until A told me she used to have the same problems. that we’re just pathetic persons who cling onto people too much.

i know nothing about her. i dont even know what her favourite colour is. i dont know what she likes. i dont know what she’s into these days.

but she’s still my favourite best friend. i said it, she is my favourite best friend. i cant deny it, i dont know why.

i do know for a fact that if we ever lived w each other, it’s gonna be hell. we went to a roadtrip earlier this year, and she just keeps yelling at me. i took it to heart and was really sour about it all through the roadtrip. and then i realized, this is probably how we’re gonna be if we lived w each other. 

we know nothing about each other, but we’re still our fave best friend. even though it doesn’t feel like it most of the time.