I do see where my initial wording on that post was hella misleading, but also like. I really wish I could just make a post saying "hey maybe sometimes Dick has his own feelings about things and his own personal issues that aren't completely tied up to Bruce even if they incidentally involve him" with or without good wording without a bunch of people coming along to say "actually it's all about Bruce and here's evidence" or sometimes "how dare you blame Dick for Bruce's behavior".
Like, this has happened many times before, and when people are polite about it sometimes those conversations can be really good! Sometimes I learn things that I didn't know before, or realize I misremembered something, or just get to go deeper into the topic than I otherwise would have, but. When it's just me repeating the same thing over and over again, to people who are assuming an intent I didn't have and never expressed, it gets frustrating.