What do you think of the website gendertrender? I find it hard to believe you can stomach some of the comments on there.
I know it shocks people but Gendertrender is my favorite blog about trans issues. See my GT appreciation post, and some other posts answering questions similar to yours. In case you don't read those: certainly some of the language and comments are shocking, but in my mind the importance of what's being said outweighs personal feels.
Even though I'm a reformist and I believe that trans politics can be realigned in a way that isn't anti-female, and that the paradigms of transition can be modified so that they cause less harm to gender-variant people, I think we're going to need a huge change - basically from the ground up.
Every single one of the trans writers who has published a book about trans issues for the last 15 years has made the situation worse. Clearly, more of the same isn't going to help. And unfortunately, there are very few trans women who have anything reasonable to say about trans issues at this point. Everyone is very deeply caught up in this female penis trans delusion.
While Gallus has been very clear that her blog is primarily for women who are effected by trans politics, gt has also served a very important secondary function as a wake-up call to trans women who aren't 100% caught up in the trans delusion. That's the purpose it served for me, anyway!
From within the trans community, it's exceedingly difficult to name reality - you don't want to "throw your sisters under the bus", since "there but for the grace of god go I" - but we've reached the point where trans women routinely make death and rape threats against women, call women they don't like "transmisogynistic cunts" while proclaiming they're "more feminist" than the women they're slurring, and trans women universally support other trans women who murder women born female over the female victims. (Kosilek, anyone?) Not to mention, all this "I'm a woman if I say I am even if I'm living my life as a man" bullshit.
Fuck that. Trans politics has literally been taken over by a bunch of male-entitled, male-supremacist assholes. Gallus is 100% on point that transgender activism is a men's sexual rights movement. It wasn't always that way, but it is now. Thanks Gallus for naming reality. And thanks to everyone who is involved in the conversation about trying to change this.