i was recently at a party discussing my reflex to reply "kill yourself" in response to sexual harassment. one of the guys in the discussion was like "isn't that a little harsh?" he should know better than to talk to strangers- strangers aren't always nice. "what if he was geniunely saying 'good morning, beautiful' in a kind way?" there is no 'kind' way to greet a woman with an unsolicited remark about her looks. "what if he's having a bad day?" that doesn't give him the right to actively make my day worse- he should kill himself
Sexual harassers are bullies at their core, and bullies are always shocked when their targets are mean right back.






















