I need help. Awhile ago i started having sex with my bf, i couldn't orgasm at all even though i was enjoying it and he was doing everything right. I read online and i saw that many women simply can't orgasm from intercourse alone and needed other forms of simulation so i let it go. Later we tried Anal sex and for some reason i get the most intense orgasms ever from it. Orgasms that are literally to the core. What's wrong with me? Why i can only have strong orgasms like this from anal :(
According to the 2009 National Survey of Sex and Behavior that polled nearly 2,000 adults (19 to 59) women reached orgasm 62% of the time with vaginal intercourse, over 80% of the time when they received oral sex and 91% of the time when they were penetrated anally.
The reason anal sex can be pleasurable is because of the “pudendal nerve”, which supplies the brain with sexual sensations when stroked. It separates into branches, the”inferior rectal nerve” and then the “dorsal nerve” of the clitoris (and penis). It supplies sensation to the anal opening, and the labia. It is responsible for the swelling of the clitoris when aroused and is even responsible for the spasms of ejaculation when reaching orgasm.
Sexual sensations are not limited to the clitoris & the g-spot. In fact the clitoris extends from the small external organ with which people become hopefully intimately familiar, but it also runs internally far into the body along areas near the vaginal wall.
The sexual sensations that may occur during anal sex. With liberal use of lubrication, and an understanding of relative risks, anal intercourse can be pleasurable to some women.