#genderfluidity problems

[unbidden-yidden-deactivated20240]

Dumb gender thought of the day: "Sure, you could say I'm a woman - in the same way you could say that a dolphin is a fish."

If your first thought was: "okay, so you're definitely not a woman, got it." Congrats! You're correct!

If your first thought was: "well, actually, that depends, as the cultural definition of 'fish' has varied throughout time and context, such as in kashrut, which classifies all fully aquatic animals as 'fish,' with only the ones having fins and scales being kosher, and that's not even getting into cladistics, wherein 'fish' is not a category that you can meaningfully define without including all mammals, and...." Mazel tov! You're also correct (and also a nerd)

[love-laugh-daydreamarevolt]

................. On the Queer ppl app during pride month?? really???

[love-laugh-daydreamarevolt]

staring at cis men not in a "I have a crush on you way" but in an aggressive "I want to dissect you like a lab frog so I can figure out how you're coded" sort of way

[genderfluid-seraph]

I was ordering food and they asked me for a name for the order and my brain just short circuted.

[genderfluid-seraph]

So i write a lot, and a lot of my main characters happen to be male. This is especially strange due to to the fact that I rail against male-centric media constantly and demand more female characters. 

For a while I thought perhaps this was due to me reading/seeing a lot of male centric work, and being stuck in that mindset. Then my friend pointed out that a lot of my main characters are very similar: doofy boys with some anxiety in social situations. Then she asked laughingly if this was my type (it sorta is.)

Then later I realize. 

They’re self inserts in part. 

I use writing to express the male side of me when I cannot in life. That’s why I write so many male leads. Its me. 

Anyway writing is really therapeutic I highly recommend it. 

[genderfluid-seraph]

Me @ self: hey what gender are you rn? Self @ me: hhhhhhhh yes

[avedea-average]

I am having such a weird day today. I keep feeling masculine and I almost walked into the men's bathroom earlier and I just ugh.

[avedea-average]

I am having such a weird day today. I keep feeling masculine and I almost walked into the men's bathroom earlier and I just ugh.