#genderfluidthoughts

[gndrfluidtay]

It's International 🏳️‍⚧️ Day of Visibility!

To everyone under the trans umbrella you are seen (only if you want to be) and valid (always)! 🫶🏼 ⚧️

[bi-amor]

when i feel like a boy its always gonna be a “femme boy” way not a “straight guy way”

[gndrfluidtay]

Genderfluid thought of the day, does anyone else give themselves a different name based on whether they feel masc, fem or somewhere inbetween? 🤔

I feel like I have names for my different personas like I have multiple personalities, yet all are still me, the same person.

♂️ Taylor | ♀️Taeya | ⚧️ Tay

Is that weird?

It feels right, like I am combining all the parts into a whole but labelling the correctly. Mostly, so I can understand how I am feeling.

Like when I name a character I make in a video game that helps me feel euphoric, it's almost always Taeya or Tay (because assigned male), but explaining this to people gets confusing in my head.

Just a deep-ish thought for the day.

If you see this and understand, even a lil bit, let me know. ☺️

[gndrfluidtay]

This year so far has just been filled with so much self acceptance and confidence building that I actually feel like my mind is healing.

And that itself is so freeing!

Keep fighting!

Ask for help!

Things can and will continue to get better!

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🫶🏼

[gndrfluidtay]

I feel like figuring out myself in my 30s rather than earlier has left the fem side of me starving for the spotlight. She just wants to be seen but seen safely.

I have to remind myself;

Take it one step at a time, move at your own pace. There's no set timeline for all of this.

The door is open, you don't have to hide anymore, but you only need to come out if you want to or feel safe. We look after each other ☺️

Love yourself 🫶🏼

[gndrfluidtay]

I think I have finally hit the point where I am entirely comfortable with my identity and explaining it to the people who I trust to listen.

Which means, to me anyway, I can start actually using nicknames & fun names gamertags and things instead of clinging to the identity of my insecure self.

Time for some fun! ☺️

[gndrfluidtay]

Good morning/afternoon/evening to the guys, gals and non-binary pals!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!

[gndrfluidtay]

I really REALLY like the name Taeya.

The more I see it, the more I say it in my mind.

It feels, real. If that makes sense.

🤔

She'll be here at some point, I know it.

For now, keep safe. 🥰😶‍🌫️