If you don't water the woman, how else do you expect Her to be wet for you??
Watering includes mental stimulation, foreplay, providing a protected space for her to feel completely at ease with you. I know, I get it.. most of what we know about Sex comes from porn& Lovers who may be too scared to be all the way upfront with us. But damnit, it needs to be said.
Get it tune with the woman you desire. Learn her Love Language. Really listen to her. And most importantly, stop Poolstroking! Poolstroking is this thrusting style inspired by porn that involves an in -and- out motion with no hip work or massaging of the yoni. There's even research to suggest that repeated encounters of this type of sex is damaging to women, causing fibroids, heavy periods and cervix damage. It also feels spiritually void as it is not pleasurable or connected to the Woman's special spots. You can tell when a Woman is really into it & if you're doing it right, you'll never have to ask or second guess