do you know steps to get away from a handler? no contact isn't a viable option, because we have sisters who rely on us to visit, but that puts us in direct line to be accessed weekly. we're tired of the abuse, but we don't know how to take small steps to get away and start healing without abandoning our sisters/going no contact, which we can't feasibly do at the moment. any help is very appreciated. we really appreciate what you do with this blog, thank you. we hope you have a nice day!
If you are unable to go no contact due to circumstances work towards limiting contact anyway possible.As I don’t know the complete situation I can only make a few suggestions: Meet in public, take someone with you, try and meet when the handler isn’t present, tell a trusted person when your visiting and when you plan on the visit ending, and ask a trusted friend to meet with you after the visit.
Oz