The Samurai Part 2
The Samurai could write a book and is.
Here's more of his insane wisdom:
When you "Go For Rejection" and "Die In Battle" something happens...
Besides getting over your fear, this huge gaping space opens in your awareness. See most of us are in our head all fucking day about this girl or that girl and strategizing/analyzing our life away, instead of just ACTING.
Go direct all the time, ask for what you want and yes, you'll be shot down a lot... But you'll also get into this super-human state of clarity of purpose. There's nothing to think about if you've been shot down or if you are now getting laid... You have all the information you need in the moment.
This awareness coupled with the state of "I don't give a fuck-ness" makes you Superman.
When and only when you get there, THEN you can start being a bit more artful in your approach...
And we'll cover more on Direct v Indirect later.
For now err to the side of Balls-Out Direct.