Jan 24, 2017
every time i see an anti-SAM post both my bisexuality and greyromanticism become stronger out of spite soon i shall be unstoppable and wreak havoc upon this world
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every time i see an anti-SAM post both my bisexuality and greyromanticism become stronger out of spite soon i shall be unstoppable and wreak havoc upon this world
it’s been about a year since i figured out i was greyro and it’s become such a big part of my identity so quickly? like it explains so much and it makes me so happy that i have a word for something i was struggling to describe for so long. like there’s been ups and downs for sure, and definitely times where i deal w a lot of internalized shit about it, but all in all it’s been such a positive thing for me to realize and i am glad
2017 will be the year i finally try to ignore aphobes and live my life- i say that but i’ll probably break that resolution tomorrow already whoops
honestly i’m so glad i found out what a qpr is?? like this isn’t that recent a thing but I found out about them at around the same time I found out I was greyro and it’s just nice to know that even if I don’t end up developing romantic feelings for someone, or developing them for someone I can be with, that I can still have a lifelong relationship and that there’s other people like me who want the same thing. Like I’d be happy in a qpr. I think I’d be just as happy as in a romantic relationship bcs for me I would be getting the same things out of it? Someone I’m comfortable around, who I live with, someone who I can enjoy doing things like cuddling or hand holding with, and just like the general emotional support that comes with that (bcs tbh I don’t think i’d have good emotional habits if I lived alone? I’d be lonely but I’d never leave the house = bad combo).
IDK if this makes a whole lot of sense but the idea of a qpr and of having a queer platonic partner is really important to me?? it brings me a lot of comfort
post: dont worry someone out there will fall in love with you!
me: um but like. will i develop romantic feelings for someone
me, consuming media of any form: where the FUCK are the aromantics
Can you give a brief explanation of the aro spectrum, with what you think everything means??
Whoa, that’s a loaded question ya got there buddy. I’m just a meek greyro, (very rarely experiences romantic attraction/experiences it to a lesser degree than alloromatics), but you can find a pretty swell definition of nearly all the aro-spectrum terms right here.