When a difficult parent dies: the grief nobody talks about
When a parent who hurt you dies, everyone expects you to fall apart in the normal way. Casseroles. Cards. "I'm so sorry for your loss."
But your grief isn't the normal kind. It's tangled. It has relief in it. And guilt for the relief. And anger that you never got the apology. And a small, terrible part of you that is somehow lonelier now than it was before.
This is real. It's called complicated grief, or disenfranchised grief, and it's well-researched. The problem is, almost nobody writes about it for the people actually living through it.
We made a printable companion for exactly this. Warm, honest, non-judgemental. For when the parent who hurt you dies and your grief looks nothing like anyone else's at the funeral.
You are not broken. This is a known shape of grief. You are allowed to feel all of it.
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